Cleary… Men need women just as much as women need men so why do we settle so often?
Uhh! Unfortunately society tells us that women are inferior on every level and SEX is what makes a soulmate. Sex can be amazing but I assure you she’s probably had much better! PSA… your penis nor you tongue is what makes her stay with your immature, ungrateful ass. She knows she needs a man! Sadly disappointment allows the wrong men the opportunity to experience her. He usually knows when it’s right verses when it’s a matter of time before a relationship will end, she usually doesn’t. She believes that in a loving relationship its possible to work through your issues and live happily ever after. When you think about it, I mean the abuse that so many of us have accepted in the past, are allowing in the present and while knowing we deserve better we’ll continue in unacceptable situations far into our future. In loveless situations yearning for a love that we naturally possess. We don’t have to admit it but verbal, emotional and physical abuse is happening! We mask the pain with our smiles, with our relaxed shoulders and our heads held high. We knowingly settle and create our own excuses as to why. Whether we have a ring on our finger, are in long term relationships or we’re hanging in there with that man that supplies all our monetary desires, well enough to keep us needing him, we’ve allowed control to be masked as love. Fear of loneliness, lack, and the idea of being a loser keeps us from being the best version of ourselves. We settle for the very things that we never wanted. I have anyway. At least at some point! At the end of the day your joy, peace and success is not predicated on something that someone else may add to you. Instead it’s about the light you choose to radiate. As you give, you shall receive. Is light a quality often taken advantage of because of the vulnerability attached to being so authentic, absolutely! But know that love still gives you the ability to say NO! Light shines on everything reveling truth in it’s time. You have to know when to walk away. If you’re the girl that’s being slapped every now and again or you getting your ass whooped regularly, if you’re the girl struggling and being propositioned for your time, attention or whatever else. If you’re the girl being told everything you CAN’T be it’s about high time you find the strength to love yourself first! Every time you settle for less than you deserve, YOU SET YOURSELF BACK 10 STEPS! I’m talking to me right now. But I hope I’ve helped at least one of you.